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While in this world, we can never be separated from the struggle. As the wheel rotates, sometimes above, sometimes below. But we must continue to strive for this wheel remains round, in order to continue to operate and run well, though through a muddy ground, through the rocky road, through difficult terrain. We also have to try for as long as in its way, the wheel can not be separated from its axis, which is Christ himself. That illustration is described by Geovanny Karamoy, or used to be called "Mr. Vanny", team members Shepherd Community of the Holy Trinity (KTM), in recollection event themed "Christian Family Facing Globalization Era", which took place in Bogor, 15 to 16 March 2010.

To be attached firmly on its axis, which is Christ, according to Mr. Vanny, wheel of life we must also have 5 pillars (bars) the following:

Prayer: This is a sturdy bulwark in every tempest. When husband and wife go trials, when there are problems with children, families that can survive are the families who pray. Here there is adherence to carry out the will of God, like the example of Mary. Obedience from the beginning to the end, carrying out God's will completely. Without prayer, obedience and submission can not exist. Indeed, this of course requires struggle and constant self-denial.

Sacraments: It is often forgotten, and less internalized its role. In fact, the sacrament of marriage for example, is a sign of God's unifying presence. Sanctity of the sacrament of marriage is so noble in the eyes of God, but the influence of age, including the influence of technology was now much eroded the sanctity of this.
Another example, the sacrament of reconciliation. Mercy of God's amazing grace caused Him to bestow forgiveness through this sacrament. If the family appreciate the meaning of this sacrament, there must also of forgiveness in the family. Do not dream that the wife / husband, child, parent, are perfect. When the husband guilty, forgive him, surrender to God, for God's grace flowing within him, and flowing in the family. Do the same if the wife is at fault. Likewise when the kids are guilty, forgive them, do not play the smack.

Scripture: This is God's love letter, which should make us always longed to read, to listen to His Word. We learn to listen, also against members of our family. Listen to the husband, wife listen, listen to the children. In our family experiences, the Lord also spoke. So, listen!

Serving: ought to serve one another family member - with a sincere, with a readiness, and with love! Many marriage finally ended because of the constant demands of their partners. Demands that can not be fulfilled can lead to despair that led to the termination of marriage.

Togetherness: This involves the attention and presence. As a father, for example, do not say love to my wife and kids if there is no attempt to frequent attendance. Similarly, as a wife, your husband is the aid to make it holy. Therefore, you need to frequently together, in order to purify each other. Togetherness is what will sanctify.

The five pillars of the family is what connects us with Christ. (01)